Did you change it from the default 192.168.1.0 subnet? If so, did you also
change your PC's IP address to a different subnet?
Try what Jeff said about constant pinging during a reboot. But make sure
your PC is also on the same 192.168.1.0/255.255.255.0 subnet. Just set it
up with a static address (not DHCP) for the purpose of resurrecting this
router. You'd need to do this anyway for TFTP reloading. If that doesn't
work then you might want to ask in the dd-wrt forums on
http://www.dd-wrt.com
-Bill Kearney