Given those details I really think you would be better to stick with the default antennas; given Netgear's specs that works out at 300mW EIRP which is in theory over your limit anyway. That's also pretty impressive for a SOHO access point straight out of the box. I'm not up with the regs in the EU but if Netgear can sell the device in that configuration it must be compliant.
If you find coverage isn't quite what you need with the one AP, buy another one for roaming coverage with the money you save from the antenna and cable. You get the added advantages of proper diversity reception for each AP, you don't have all that cable eating up your receive performance (very important!) plus the APs can share some of the load to improve network performance.