Help with connecting bluetooth to laptop! :( Please.

I just received a Motorola H390 Bluetooth Headset for Christmas this weekend and I'm having trouble connecting it with my Dell XPS M1530 laptop.

It connected fine with my cell phone through pairing mode and everything works great in that aspect. However, I was told that it is possible to use these Bluetooth headsets with your computers. I have some sort of Bluetooth software all ready installed on my laptop that came with it, but it won't find the device.

I put the device in pairing mode and tried it wirelessly. No dice. Then I tried to do the same thing using a USB cable. Still no dice.

I'm getting a bit frustrated and I've been reading a bunch of things about it all over the internet that don't make any sense at all.

If someone could help me out with this, I'd be very grateful. I want to use my Christmas present to it's full potential.

Thanks.

I have the Bluetooth connected now after thousands of trials and errors. (More errors than trials lol).

Now I want to make the sound come through my ear piece, and make the mic on my ear piece enabled, instead of the integrated mic on my laptop.

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