I'm assuming you've made sure the laptop is using the same wireless channel as the wireless router, and the radio is definitely enabled on the laptop?
If so, try using the laptop to connect to a different wireless network somewhere else (McDonalds?). That will prove the wireless works on the laptop still.
If that still works - try reseting the router to factory defaults (once you've written down all the settings on it!)
Sparks
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